Quote From: rv1978There is still hope.. Even tho he is on medication there are ways to show him you are the person he fell in love with. You should try and go out with girlfriends. Make yourself beautiful and go out for a night of fun and excitement with the girls. I see you are jealous when he talks to your dog, don't be. At least he is starting to show some signs of life. Another, please do not compare your marriage with others for we all are different. You and your husband needs to establish one thing that is in common.... LOVE. Once that is worked out then it should be a lot easier from there. You need to talk to him. If he gets on a defense try to find other ways to talk to him so you can avoid conflicts. Send him a card telling him how much you miss his company and the way he makes you feel. Tell him in detail the love you both shared. But most of all, take some time for you and pretty yourself up and go out with the girls. You need it. I can also tell you are lacking positive attention for yourself. Don't let that deal with your marriage.
I believe your husband loves you but is lost with all the medicine he is taking.
I want to thank you for answering my post. You made a lot of sense and made me feel better! I would go out with girlfriends but he would have a fit, he doesn't even like me to go out with my mom shopping. The card idea is very good. You hit the nail on the head about not getting positive attention. I just don't understand, this man was such a Romeo! He noticed and commented on every little part of me! I miss that. He says he notices now and thinks good thoughts but I say I can't read your mind. Tell me! Yes, we are all different but I just don't see that look of love in his eyes, actually he never looks at me and I look pretty durn good. I am 7 yrs. younger than him and fix myself up as he goes around not shaving and dirty. He is a good-looking man when cleaned up. Thank you again so very much, you are a wise young girl! And I really appreciated your answering me.
