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June 5, 2006, 1:22 pm PDT
coception deception
Quote From: lh2000"What are the statistics on a pregnancy being the foundation of the marriage taking place to begin with and it lasting? "
I think they suck either way something like half of all marriages end in divorce.
When I was in college we looked at birth and marriage records and found that 50% of all first babies born in the 1950s were born less then 8 months after the marriage.
Back then it was not a choice as it is now. It would be interesting to see how that stat has changed. I believe I was a victim of being trapped by my ex-fiancee'. My ex left her journal out where I could easily find it and read it. I was unsure about getting invonvlved seriously again after a 10 year relationship went bad.I opened up to my ex about this and about how I would love love to have a child when the time was right. I've used a mixture of the withdrawal method and condoms. There were several times when I could not climax, she would take off the condom. She weighs more than me, but that was not a factor in how I felt about her. In fact, I told here she neede a large body to hold the lagre heart she has. She also put that in her journal. After removing the condom, she would hold me in her while I climaxed. Anyway to make a long story shorter, she was going from job to job, and had steady employment. Because of the way the direction the relationship was going, she used my credit cards for her 2 sons for Christmas. I then got hurt on the job after she became pregnant. I ended up having to sell my stock, cash in my 401 and sell my motorcycle to stay in the house we were renting which I paid security deposit, brokers fee and first months rent, totallying 5000. Since then, her sister bought a deli which she works in, still lives in the house with our son and her 2 previous sons. I'm living in a studio apt on workers comp, just had shoulder surgery, and they want to do back surgery to which I am very hesitant. She also moved her her other 2 son's Dad back in for 3 months, then rented a room 2 someone that stiffed her, and now another guy. I know I have a responsibility to take care of my son, but I'm barely able to live on Long Island NY. I have the journal in my possession and would love for you to see it and tell me what you think. I'm experiencing physical pain as well as depression and major anxiety! I need your help. I have applied for government assistance to no avail. Thank You in Advance Johnny G
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